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June 28, 2026
'Colapso', A.Lobo (Acrilico, A3)
June 28, 2026
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The day I took off the mask: stripping down my autism

In 2024, the official confirmation arrived that I am autistic, a piece that explains why my way of living BDSM is deeply connected to my neurodivergence. Bringing this to the blog is vital because BDSM is about relationship, connection, and social communication; that is why this diagnosis marks an important turning point here, framing everything I share in a completely new context.
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December 29, 2024
Folsom Berlin 2006, my first ever big event
December 29, 2024
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Session-oriented and social-oriented events

Nowadays session-oriented events are less prevalent than social-oriented events. It’s not that there are less session-oriented events now, but that there has been a greater increase in the number of events that don’t include play spaces, so I'm finding that social-events are much more prevalent in the kinky scene when compared to the decade of 2000s.
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July 16, 2024
Slave collar
July 16, 2024
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Boys and slaves

Both a boy and a slave are identities in the kinky community tied to submission, but with a different mindset for both the submissive and the dominant. In general Doms have a higher expectation of service from the slave, more rigid rules and control on aspects out of the session. But the first difference is that Sir/boy power exchange is around authority, whereas Master/slave approach is around ownership.
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April 20, 2020
April 20, 2020
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Kink discordance

I've been in a kink discordant relationship for 20 years because I fell in love with my vanilla husband and we managed to make that first spark of the match light a long-lasting fire in our fireplace. I accepted my BDSM side one year after being together, close to my 22nd anniversary. And of course, a pushy boy as I was already, I tried to convert him into a Dom.
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