lifestyle

December 29, 2024

Session-oriented and social-oriented events

Nowadays session-oriented events are less prevalent than social-oriented events. It’s not that there are less session-oriented events now, but that there has been a greater increase in the number of events that don’t include play spaces, so I'm finding that social-events are much more prevalent in the kinky scene when compared to the decade of 2000s.
July 16, 2024

Boys and slaves

Both a boy and a slave are identities in the kinky community tied to submission, but with a different mindset for both the submissive and the dominant. In general Doms have a higher expectation of service from the slave, more rigid rules and control on aspects out of the session. But the first difference is that Sir/boy power exchange is around authority, whereas Master/slave approach is around ownership.
April 20, 2020

Kink discordance

I've been in a kink discordant relationship for 20 years because I fell in love with my vanilla husband and we managed to make that first spark of the match light a long-lasting fire in our fireplace. I accepted my BDSM side one year after being together, close to my 22nd anniversary. And of course, a pushy boy as I was already, I tried to convert him into a Dom.