M/s

November 11, 2026

The Autistic Anchor for the ADHD Mind

Power dynamics between an Autistic Master and an ADHD submissive carry a unique, deeply grounding synergy. What serves as a tool for self-regulation and technical precision for the autistic mind becomes a shelter and the perfect anchor against ADHD chaos.
July 26, 2025

Exploring temperature play: Going cold (and Lube-on-the-Rocks!)

Temperature play, particularly cold play, is a versatile and impactful element within M/s dynamics. It offers a spectrum from subtle discomfort to intense sensation without requiring specialized equipment. Starting with cold elements like ice or chilled objects is recommended due to their milder nature.
December 29, 2024

Session-oriented and social-oriented events

Nowadays session-oriented events are less prevalent than social-oriented events. It’s not that there are less session-oriented events now, but that there has been a greater increase in the number of events that don’t include play spaces, so I'm finding that social-events are much more prevalent in the kinky scene when compared to the decade of 2000s.
August 9, 2024

A collared slave

I have already shared that I earned my collar in January 2019, an important moment in my life which was followed by a celebration in Antwerp. But what next? What happens when switching from the slave mindset into the collared slave one? And indeed, why I made that step in that moment with my Master?