July 18, 2026
I understand my slave side as a therapeutic space for sensory decompression. In this post, I leave my personal guide: a series of tools to negotiate with a Master without losing the essence of the relationship.
July 26, 2025
Temperature play, particularly cold play, is a versatile and impactful element within M/s dynamics. It offers a spectrum from subtle discomfort to intense sensation without requiring specialized equipment. Starting with cold elements like ice or chilled objects is recommended due to their milder nature.
December 29, 2024
Nowadays session-oriented events are less prevalent than social-oriented events. It’s not that there are less session-oriented events now, but that there has been a greater increase in the number of events that don’t include play spaces, so I'm finding that social-events are much more prevalent in the kinky scene when compared to the decade of 2000s.
August 9, 2024
I have already shared that I earned my collar in January 2019, an important moment in my life which was followed by a celebration in Antwerp. But what next? What happens when switching from the slave mindset into the collared slave one? And indeed, why I made that step in that moment with my Master?
July 16, 2024
Both a boy and a slave are identities in the kinky community tied to submission, but with a different mindset for both the submissive and the dominant. In general Doms have a higher expectation of service from the slave, more rigid rules and control on aspects out of the session. But the first difference is that Sir/boy power exchange is around authority, whereas Master/slave approach is around ownership.
June 14, 2024
I find brats very appealing because I'm a brat myself and I connect very much with the brat energy. As Dom, they excite my sadistic side by bringing good reasons for punishment during my sessions.
