safety

August 9, 2024
August 9, 2024
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A collared slave

I have already shared that I earned my collar in January 2019, an important moment in my life which was followed by a celebration in Antwerp. But what next? What happens when switching from the slave mindset into the collared slave one? And indeed, why I made that step in that moment with my Master?
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July 16, 2024
Slave collar
July 16, 2024
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Boys and slaves

Both a boy and a slave are identities in the kinky community tied to submission, but with a different mindset for both the submissive and the dominant. In general Doms have a higher expectation of service from the slave, more rigid rules and control on aspects out of the session. But the first difference is that Sir/boy power exchange is around authority, whereas Master/slave approach is around ownership.
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August 26, 2019
August 26, 2019
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The interview: wavelength, sub mindset, fantasies, expectations and trust

Here I was, going for a beer close to the boy's place, carrying all stuff instead of following my rule of making a pre-scene meeting at a pub or a coffee shop in the city centre. I like to call the pre-scene meeting 'the interview'. And I find it necessary, as it helps not having to interrupt the atmosphere during a session for things that can be discussed and agreed before.
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