This is the space where I want to share the links of my favourite parties, shops and clubs, or the events I would like to attend some day, or visit and enjoy again. I’m not getting money from any place, just adding here those that I think are worth sharing.
Bars & Clubs
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Berlin | Club Culture Houze | Fetish club in Berlin with a great basement where you can nicely enjoy fisting, flogging, spanking, or whatever you want to do... |
| Amsterdam | GayAmsterdam – Fetish and Cruise Scene | Directory with clubs, fetish shops and events | |
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Berlin | LAB.ORATORY | Anything goes in this sex club |
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Barcelona | Open Mind | Great space for play, very focused into fisting and watersports, with changing area and shower for cleaning, 2 floors full of slings and different type of areas of play. Fistclubbcn parties worth to attend. |
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Berlin | Quälgeist Berlin e.V. | One of the most amazing places to enjoy BDSM in a great atmosphere. Since end 2018 temporarily closed due to issues regarding license, but hopefully this will resume their activities some day soon |
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Barcelona | Rosas 5 | BDSM club open to all genders and sexual orientations. Besides being a great play space, they regularly BDSM and shibari workshops |
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Antwerp | The Boots | One of the largest kinky-oriented gay cruise clubs, large with its many floors and special events. A must in the European scene, worth visiting during the Leather Pride in February |
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Northern Europe | Top of Europe | LMCs/SLM clubs in northern Europe have been always very active, now they have joined efforts and provide details of all their events in the Top Of Europe website |
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London | Underground Club London | The place where kinky clubs come together. Check the website for the different clubs meeting each day |
Lifestyle & Culture
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CPHmaster | Master in Copenhaguen that has embraced BDSM as a lifestyle. Very interesting photo and story collection | |
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Full Cow: Edge Talks Leather and Kink | This is a podcast from an experienced kinkster which I'm so happy having been recommended. Good communicator, down-to-earth, vulnerable and introvert. I really recommend listening to this guy. | |
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Gengoroth Tagame | THE illustrator of sadist and masochist fantasies. Extreme but also with vanilla creations like My Husband's Brother | |
| John’s Guide to Leather & Bear London | A personal guide by John Pendal, a kinkster living in London who also facilitates BDSM workshops | ||
| Kink Abuse | Free web resource available for people to identify signs & symptoms of abuse. | ||
| Leather Archives & Museum | Founded by Chuck Renslow and Tony DeBlase in 1991 as a community archives, library, and museum of Leather, kink, fetish, and BDSM history and culture | ||
| Metalbond | Adult gay bondage site dedicated to the physically restrained male. Handcuffs, chains, irons, jail cells, cages... | ||
| mitchmen – the blog | Gay art by 'mitchmen' Mitchell and other artists featuring male erotic fetish, S&M, men tied up, male bondage, domination, humiliation and spanking | ||
| The Leather Journal | Founded in May 1987, a news magazine that covers leather clubs, organizations and events | ||
| Tom of Finland Foundation | Foundation's purpose is to preserve Tom of Finland work, but scope was widened to offer a safe haven for all erotic art in response to rampant discrimination | ||
| Victor Hensel-Coe Photography | Berlin-based photographer whose work draws on cinema, sex, fashion and portraiture. |
Playroom furniture
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Online shop (US) | Caught-In-The-Act – Maxcita | Straightjackets, sleepsacks, canvas restraints for the bed, vacrac... |
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Online shop (Germany) | Dungorium | Ever wondered who sells those tubes that you can use for building bondage racks? Check the Dungotube Bondagesystem section and I'm sure you'll recall having seen them |
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Shop (Germany) | Evil Toys | BDSM furniture, bondage and scene accessories (crosses, cages, pillories, benches, beds...) |
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Shop (UK) | Fetters | The factory of kinky dreams, the furniture and playroom accessories are just fabulous. |
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Shop (US) | JimSupport | Robust sling frames, rim seats and fuck/fist benches. I chose model X Sling Frame from these guys after having played in a few of them, very robust and reliable, no regret having gone for this one. |
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Shop (Fort Lauderdale, US) | MetalBound | Kinky furniture (beds, benches, cages, suspension frames...) |
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Shop (Berlin) | Peitschenhandel Berlin | Besides other BDSM stuff, you can find here an interseting collection of dungeon devices |
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Online shop (Netherlands) | Steeltoys | Netherlands based company specialized on steel cages, frames, restraints, weight balls, spreader bars... |
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Shop (Netherlands) | Style Fetish Industries | Metal furniture for the playroom of your dreams. I tried the floor pillory and slave chair in BDSM Loft in Berlin. For me a must now |
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Shop (Los Angeles) | The Stockroom | Strongly focused on BDSM gear and toys, with a very extense section of dungeon furniture with also medieval-style devices |
Playrooms
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Apartment (Berlin) | BDSM-Loft | Centric full-equipped apartment (around Möckernbrücke) with 2 play spaces (play area and 'worship' area). The playroom furniture just unique, a must for playroom lovers |
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Playhouse (Eindhoven) | Kinky Playhouse NL | Fully equipped playhouse, with Steeltoys material (sling frame, cages,...). Perfect for a M/s escape in the countryside near Eindhoven |
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Apartment (France) | La Fistinière | As per the end of 2018, the place is now temporarily closed, but keep an eye - this is one of these unique places where you can book your holidays, be apart of the world and in a quiet place, and let your ass have good FFun while meeting other fisting enthusiasts |
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Apartment / Club (Saarbrucken, Germany) | Next Level | BDSM club but with option to rent either the rooms like a hotel or the Next Level space |
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Playrooms (Europe) | Playrooms | Directory of different playrooms in Europe (mostly Germany). Some of them are specialized in rubber, medieval style,... more expensive than the usual ones, but most of them focused on per-hour |
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Apartment (Berlin) | R&Co Berlin Apartments | 2 kinky studios with sling, cross and cage in Berlin's gay area of Schöeneberg |
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Apartment (Vienna) | SCM Aparments / SM Suite | A 130 sqm with 2 bedrooms and 2 playrooms, with sling, cage, framed beds,... |
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Apartment (Berlin) | SM Apartments Berlin | Amazing apartments with all the things you need for a kinky experience, I've been in all of them and enjoyed every single minute of the stay |
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Apartment (Berlin) | The Hoist Basements | Play apartments in Berlin, in the heart of the kinky gay district. |
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Playroom (Barcelona) | The Wicked Place | It's a play space with 2 playrooms that can be rented (the Steam and the Kink rooms). Kink has a special place for slaves to reflect on their mistakes and offenses :),,, They also organize workshops and social gatherings regularly |
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Apartment (Vienna) | Vienna Fetish Apartment | BDSM apartment in Vienna equipped currently with a play-bench with restraint options, a luxury sling and an exclusive gyno-cage |
Shops
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Online shop (Cologne) | Alpha Whips | Whip maker specialised in fine hand made synthetic whips for consenting adults |
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Shop (Berlin) | BlackStyle | This shop in Berlin is specialised in rubber, with great stuff if you are looking for a second skin |
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Shop (Barcelona/Berlin) | Boxer | Great collection for army and skinhead stuff, as well as leather and rubber - a brand that has conquered Europe, really worth checking the shops |
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Shop (Munich) | Diburnium / Toy-Versand | Toy-Versand is the online shop brand for Diburnium, a great shop in the heart of the Sendlinger Tor, the gay district in Munich. Great staff, good material at a convenient cost. I bought my chaps there many years ago among other stuff and I still enjoy them, good leather quality |
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Online shop (Berlin) | DildoKing | My favourite website for dildos and anything related to asshole, good offering, good bargains, effective in delivery |
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Shop (Seattle) | Doghouse Leathers | The place to go if you are visiting Seattle. I loved the selection of floggers (elk, moose, cowhide, bull, buffalo...) and the exceptionally friendly staff |
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Shop (Los Angeles) | eXtreme Restraints | Focused on BDSM gear and toys, with bondage on the top, the toy selection is pretty wide compared to other sites |
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Shop (London) | Fetish Freak | Great atmosphere in this smaller shop in London, great bargains in rubber and leather |
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Online shop (Czech Republic) | gaymegastore | Located in Czech Republic, they are very effective and with good bargains now and then |
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Gear Berlin | Apparel shop with great selection on leather and sport. If you are looking for Langlitz, Wesco and Alpha, this is a must visit | |
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Shop (London) | House of Harlot | Later rubber fetish fashion handmade in London |
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Online shop (US) | House of MarKus | Crafted floggers, paddles and patches. Special recommendation for the electric floggers which I have had the privilege to try, an unique experience |
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Shop (London) | Libidex | For rubber lovers that love design, with very unusual designs |
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Online shop (Germany) | meo.de | One of the most popular online fetish shops in Europe |
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Shop (Amsterdam, Berlin) | MisterB | A classic, specialised in clothing for gay men's leather and rubber fetish community |
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Shop (San Francisco) | Mr. S Leather | One of the top ones in the States, really if you are in San Francisco, visit the store and get lost there |
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Online shop (CH) | PigDreams | Partners in Europe of unusual brands like ToppedToys and Wad, great selection of toys, with physical store in Aarau |
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Shop (London) | Regulation | A classic, specialised in clothing for gay men's leather and rubber fetish community |
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Shop (Amsterdam) | RoB | A veteran in Leather, Rubber and other kinky outfits, toys and play supplies |
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Online shop (NL) | rubberfun.nl | Gas masks, rebreathers, tubes for medical play or breath play, connectors... and at reasonable prices |
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Manchester (Online) | RubberPigs | Rubber-only stuff from Manchester, with some special love for the dirtier pigs. Check for the rubber workshop if interested in exploring creating your own outfits |
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Online shop (Germany) | RubberShop.net | For the rubber kinksters enjoying gas masks, tubes and breath control |
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Online shop (US) | Silicone Nozzles | For the lovers of medical play, with enema equipment, colon tubes and deep throat training tubes used for deep throat training and gag reflex defeater, among other stuff |
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Online shop (UK) | SkiHi | Interesting selection of collars, restraints, toys and playroom stuff in the fetish section, and not to be missed the lubes |
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Shop (Munich) | Spexter | Men's clothing store in Munich - outfits, underwear, leather, rubber, neoprene, uniforms, boots, bondage,... |
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Online shop (US) | SquarePegToys | If you are into anal play, then this might be of your interest. Not the cheapest brand of dildos, but the designer is doing a great job in creating unique stuff which sure that give new sensations |
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Shop (Vienna/Schluechtern) | STUDIO GUM | If you are a intense rubber kinkster, you might want to check this one, but maybe you know it already |
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Shop (Los Angeles) | The Stockroom | Strongly focused on BDSM gear and toys, with a very extense section of dungeon furniture with also medieval-style devices |
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Online shop (US) | The Twisted Monk | Hemp rope providers for bondage enthusiasts since 2004 |
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Online shop (Canada) | Topped Toys | Silicone toys made in Canada, delivering worldwide a great range of (also huge) butt plugs and riding monsters :),,, |
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Online shop (UK) | WetHot | Rubber designers since 1989, custom measured, and with an interesting rubber hood collection |