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I need music in my sessions, it drives my energy and the play rhythm as well, I love dancing with my hands inside a greasy hole, or following the beat when using the flogger. I use up beats and slow beats depending on the energy I want in a particular activity.

For fisting, flogging and spanking, I go for uptempo rhythms usually based on progressive trance/house. Those styles have long songs and in slow progressions, which facilitates for example one particular flogger for a full song with different waves, and followed by a flogger change in the next song. In fisting, it can be a particular position and technique that switches to another one in the next song. For bondage, if it’s leading into spanking or flogging, I will keep the uptemo beat.

For rope bondage or as a transition with after care in the middle of the session, or ritualism (my own BDSM rituals like Sunday’s Black Mass) I look for downtempo rythms like ambient, dark ambient, electronic, minimal techno, trip hop, chillout and even jazz. As a way to end the session I like to do massage at the rythm of relaxing tones from spa/zen style of music.

So here a selection of the music that I use in my sessions, with some of them coming from my dearest kinksters that brought some own vibes into our sessions. You might want to follow my shared playlists in Spotify, but adding here a few of them that I particularly enjoy.

Uptempo

Downtempo

Relax