protocols

August 9, 2024
August 9, 2024
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A collared slave

I have already shared that I earned my collar in January 2019, an important moment in my life which was followed by a celebration in Antwerp. But what next? What happens when switching from the slave mindset into the collared slave one? And indeed, why I made that step in that moment with my Master?
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July 16, 2024
Slave collar
July 16, 2024
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Boys and slaves

Both a boy and a slave are identities in the kinky community tied to submission, but with a different mindset for both the submissive and the dominant. In general Doms have a higher expectation of service from the slave, more rigid rules and control on aspects out of the session. But the first difference is that Sir/boy power exchange is around authority, whereas Master/slave approach is around ownership.
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June 13, 2020
Goodbye, Antwerp
June 13, 2020
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My first year as daddy

My slave is now free, and I’m sincerely thankful for the amazing year behind in which I had the privilege of getting the trust from such amazing and exceptional boy. Twelve months in which for the first time in my life I went all the way training a slave.
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May 6, 2019
May 6, 2019
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Protocols, a starting point for building up the own language

There are three chapters that I found very interesting, which to me still serve as a good starting point, and very aligned to what you can find in BDSM blogs and community websites: Types of ‘Old Guard Protocols’ (with the social, low and high protocols), the positions, the hand and eye signals, and the dungeon protocols, which don’t differ from the usual party etiquette.
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February 27, 2019
February 27, 2019
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Serving my Master at Antwerp’s Leather Pride

Still flying from last weekend’s trip in Antwerp. The Leather & Fetish Pride Belgium has just finished, it’s been the first event I have attended as a collared slave, enjoying the atmosphere while making my best in serving my Master, a weekend of 24x7 that allowed me to enjoy both the Darklands and the fabulous The Boots. I’ve been happily diving in the subspace the whole weekend!
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