July 18, 2026
I understand my slave side as a therapeutic space for sensory decompression. In this post, I leave my personal guide: a series of tools to negotiate with a Master without losing the essence of the relationship.
August 9, 2024
I have already shared that I earned my collar in January 2019, an important moment in my life which was followed by a celebration in Antwerp. But what next? What happens when switching from the slave mindset into the collared slave one? And indeed, why I made that step in that moment with my Master?
July 16, 2024
Both a boy and a slave are identities in the kinky community tied to submission, but with a different mindset for both the submissive and the dominant. In general Doms have a higher expectation of service from the slave, more rigid rules and control on aspects out of the session. But the first difference is that Sir/boy power exchange is around authority, whereas Master/slave approach is around ownership.
June 14, 2024
I find brats very appealing because I'm a brat myself and I connect very much with the brat energy. As Dom, they excite my sadistic side by bringing good reasons for punishment during my sessions.
June 13, 2020
My slave is now free, and I’m sincerely thankful for the amazing year behind in which I had the privilege of getting the trust from such amazing and exceptional boy. Twelve months in which for the first time in my life I went all the way training a slave.
May 6, 2019
There are three sections that I found very interesting, which to me still serve as a good starting point, and very aligned to what you can find in BDSM blogs and community websites: Types of ‘Old Guard Protocols’ (with the social, low and high protocols), the positions, the hand and eye signals, and the dungeon protocols, which don’t differ from the usual party etiquette.
