protocols

June 13, 2020

My first year as daddy

My slave is now free, and I’m sincerely thankful for the amazing year behind in which I had the privilege of getting the trust from such amazing and exceptional boy. Twelve months in which for the first time in my life I went all the way training a slave.
May 6, 2019

Protocols, a starting point for building up the own language

There are three chapters that I found very interesting, which to me still serve as a good starting point, and very aligned to what you can find in BDSM blogs and community websites: Types of ‘Old Guard Protocols’ (with the social, low and high protocols), the positions, the hand and eye signals, and the dungeon protocols, which don’t differ from the usual party etiquette.
February 27, 2019

Serving my Master at Antwerp’s Leather Pride

Still flying from last weekend’s trip in Antwerp. The Leather & Fetish Pride Belgium has just finished, it’s been the first event I have attended as a collared slave, enjoying the atmosphere while making my best in serving my Master, a weekend of 24x7 that allowed me to enjoy both the Darklands and the fabulous The Boots. I’ve been happily diving in the subspace the whole weekend!
October 2, 2018

Using ‘Sir’ or not using ‘Sir’…

Until July’s trip to London, and for over a year, when chatting or sending text messages to Doms that I was grateful for the fun in a past session, for their kindness or just for being good friends, I was ending the sentences with the 'Sir' tail. Not pretending to auto-assign me as their boy, but I just started adding this in chat as an appreciation. It was the way I just started using to set clearly the kinky context when talking, moving from my ‘daily me’ into the ‘kinky me’.