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Welcome to a personal exploration of my path in kink, where I share the insights and experiences that shape my own journey. Here, you’ll discover a chronological account of my evolution, starting from key moments like Folsom Berlin in 2006, through earning my collar, and continuing with reflections on various experiences in the BDSM community.

July 26, 2025
Iced J-Lube
July 26, 2025
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Exploring Temperature Play: Going Cold (and Lube-on-the-Rocks!)

Temperature play, particularly cold play, is a versatile and impactful element within M/s dynamics. It offers a spectrum from subtle discomfort to intense sensation without requiring specialized equipment. Starting with cold elements like ice or chilled objects is recommended due to their milder nature.
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December 29, 2024
Folsom Berlin 2006, my first ever big event
December 29, 2024
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Session-oriented and social-oriented events

Nowadays session-oriented events are less prevalent than social-oriented events. It’s not that there are less session-oriented events now, but that there has been a greater increase in the number of events that don’t include play spaces, so I'm finding that social-events are much more prevalent in the kinky scene when compared to the decade of 2000s.
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August 9, 2024
August 9, 2024
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A collared slave

I have already shared that I earned my collar in January 2019, an important moment in my life which was followed by a celebration in Antwerp. But what next? What happens when switching from the slave mindset into the collared slave one? And indeed, why I made that step in that moment with my Master?
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July 16, 2024
Slave collar
July 16, 2024
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Boys and slaves

Both a boy and a slave are identities in the kinky community tied to submission, but with a different mindset for both the submissive and the dominant. In general Doms have a higher expectation of service from the slave, more rigid rules and control on aspects out of the session. But the first difference is that Sir/boy power exchange is around authority, whereas Master/slave approach is around ownership.
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