July 26, 2026
For an autistic mind, dominating isn't a contradiction, but a search for intensity and structure. Yet, stepping into the Master role forced me to confront established archetypes of what a leatherman "should be."
Welcome to a personal exploration of my path in kink, where I share the insights and experiences that shape my own journey. Here, you’ll discover a chronological account of my evolution, starting from key moments like Folsom Berlin in 2006, through earning my collar, and continuing with reflections on various experiences in the BDSM community.
July 18, 2026
I understand my slave side as a therapeutic space for sensory decompression. In this post, I leave my personal guide: a series of tools to negotiate with a Master without losing the essence of the relationship.
June 28, 2026
In 2024, the official confirmation arrived that I am autistic, a piece that explains why my way of living BDSM is deeply connected to my neurodivergence. Bringing this to the blog is vital because BDSM is about relationship, connection, and social communication; that is why this diagnosis marks an important turning point here, framing everything I share in a completely new context.
July 26, 2025
Temperature play, particularly cold play, is a versatile and impactful element within M/s dynamics. It offers a spectrum from subtle discomfort to intense sensation without requiring specialized equipment. Starting with cold elements like ice or chilled objects is recommended due to their milder nature.
December 29, 2024
Nowadays session-oriented events are less prevalent than social-oriented events. It’s not that there are less session-oriented events now, but that there has been a greater increase in the number of events that don’t include play spaces, so I'm finding that social-events are much more prevalent in the kinky scene when compared to the decade of 2000s.
August 9, 2024
I have already shared that I earned my collar in January 2019, an important moment in my life which was followed by a celebration in Antwerp. But what next? What happens when switching from the slave mindset into the collared slave one? And indeed, why I made that step in that moment with my Master?
