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March 21, 2020
March 21, 2020
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Gear is not consent

Fetish parties become that place where all possible wavelengths and all different ways in understanding kink come together. However, there is also the obligation of keeping a very basic rule that goes beyond etiquette: gear is not consent, nudity is not consent, ask first before touching someone.
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November 17, 2019
November 17, 2019
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Conditioning with (not only) sounds

Sounds are very powerful. With some repeated conditioning, you can create an association to a sound, anticipating a specific reward or a punishment that will cause the trained conditioned response: maybe fear to the corrective punishment, maybe pleasure with an immediate heat down there
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November 12, 2019
November 12, 2019
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Switching: being a Master and a slave

My slave is excited and a bit scared as well. In a few weeks my Master is coming to town, and I will be a devoted slave to my Master, and at the same time the Master of my slave. Are you already seeing the challenges that can come, and the different tortuous scenes that might develop during those days? What happens when your Sir is a switch? What if as slave, the Master of your Sir commands you to use your Sir as furniture? Would it be fair to get retaliation after?
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August 26, 2019
August 26, 2019
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The vetting interview: wavelength, sub mindset, fantasies, expectations and trust

Here I was, going for a beer close to the boy's place, carrying all stuff instead of following my rule of making a pre-scene meeting at a pub or a coffee shop in the city centre. I like to call the pre-scene meeting 'the interview'. And I find it necessary, as it helps not having to interrupt the atmosphere during a session for things that can be discussed and agreed before.
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February 27, 2019
February 27, 2019
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Serving my Master at Antwerp’s Leather Pride

Still flying from last weekend’s trip in Antwerp. The Leather & Fetish Pride Belgium has just finished, it’s been the first event I have attended as a collared slave, enjoying the atmosphere while making my best in serving my Master, a weekend of 24x7 that allowed me to enjoy both the Darklands and the fabulous The Boots. I’ve been happily diving in the subspace the whole weekend!
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October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
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Using ‘Sir’ or not using ‘Sir’…

Until July’s trip to London, and for over a year, when chatting or sending text messages to Doms that I was grateful for the fun in a past session, for their kindness or just for being good friends, I was ending the sentences with the 'Sir' tail. Not pretending to auto-assign me as their boy, but I just started adding this in chat as an appreciation. It was the way I just started using to set clearly the kinky context when talking, moving from my ‘daily me’ into the ‘kinky me’.
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