abuse – The Red Wolf

August 9, 2024

A collared slave

I have already shared that I earned my collar in January 2019, an important moment in my life which was followed by a celebration in Antwerp. But what next? What happens when switching from the slave mindset into the collared slave one? And indeed, why I made that step in that moment with my Master?

January 2, 2022

Drugs

Pushing limits is part of the common jargon in BDSM. It's a journey that takes patience and time. But when impatience triggers, it can be appealing thinking of shortcuts.

March 21, 2020

Gear is not consent

Fetish parties become that place where all possible wavelengths and all different ways in understanding kink come together. However, there is also the obligation of keeping a very basic rule that goes beyond etiquette: gear is not consent, nudity is not consent, ask first before touching someone.