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November 17, 2019

Conditioning with (not only) sounds

Sounds are very powerful. With some repeated conditioning, you can create an association to a sound, anticipating a specific reward or a punishment that will cause the trained conditioned response: maybe fear to the corrective punishment, maybe pleasure with an immediate heat down there
August 26, 2019

The vetting interview: wavelength, sub mindset, fantasies, expectations and trust

Here I was, going for a beer close to the boy's place, carrying all stuff instead of following my rule of making a pre-scene meeting at a pub or a coffee shop in the city centre. I like to call the pre-scene meeting 'the interview'. And I find it necessary, as it helps not having to interrupt the atmosphere during a session for things that can be discussed and agreed before.