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January 16, 2021

Kinky self pleasures: stretching and sounding

Ball stretching and sounding are for me very intense forms of self pleasure, and they are very affordable. Once mastering on ourselves, we can then drive subs and slaves into great new sensations, adding them as part of our domination play
November 13, 2020

With patience and lube

There is this well known say in Spanish that it is with patience and saliva that the elephant fucked the ant. I think that lubricants and dildos might have helped speed up things between the ant and the elephant, but for sure patience has been key in my own journey.
April 20, 2020

Kink discordance

I've been in a kink discordant relationship for 20 years because I fell in love with my vanilla husband and we managed to make that first spark of the match light a long-lasting fire in our fireplace. I accepted my BDSM side one year after being together, close to my 22nd anniversary. And of course, a pushy boy as I was already, I tried to convert him into a Dom.
March 21, 2020

Gear is not consent

Fetish parties become that place where all possible wavelengths and all different ways in understanding kink come together. However, there is also the obligation of keeping a very basic rule that goes beyond etiquette: gear is not consent, nudity is not consent, ask first before touching someone.