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June 13, 2020

June 13, 2020

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My first year as daddy

My slave is now free, and I’m sincerely thankful for the amazing year behind in which I had the privilege of getting the trust from such amazing and exceptional boy. Twelve months in which for the first time in my life I went all the way training a slave.

April 20, 2020

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Kink discordance

I've been in a kink discordant relationship for 20 years because I fell in love with my vanilla husband and we managed to make that first spark of the match light a long-lasting fire in our fireplace. I accepted my BDSM side one year after being together, close to my 22nd anniversary. And of course, a pushy boy as I was already, I tried to convert him into a Dom.

March 21, 2020

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Gear is not consent

Fetish parties become that place where all possible wavelengths and all different ways in understanding kink come together. However, there is also the obligation of keeping a very basic rule that goes beyond etiquette: gear is not consent, nudity is not consent, ask first before touching someone.

November 17, 2019

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Conditioning with (not only) sounds

Sounds are very powerful. With some repeated conditioning, you can create an association to a sound, anticipating a specific reward or a punishment that will cause the trained conditioned response: maybe fear to the corrective punishment, maybe pleasure with an immediate heat down there

November 12, 2019

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Switching: being a Master and a slave

My slave is excited and a bit scared as well. In a few weeks my Master is coming to town, and I will be a devoted slave to my Master, and at the same time the Master of my slave. Are you already seeing the challenges that can come, and the different tortuous scenes that might develop during those days? What happens when your Sir is a switch? What if as slave, the Master of your Sir commands you to use your Sir as furniture? Would it be fair to get retaliation after?

August 26, 2019

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The vetting interview: wavelength, sub mindset, fantasies, expectations and trust

Here I was, going for a beer close to the boy's place, carrying all stuff instead of following my rule of making a pre-scene meeting at a pub or a coffee shop in the city centre. I like to call the pre-scene meeting 'the interview'. And I find it necessary, as it helps not having to interrupt the atmosphere during a session for things that can be discussed and agreed before.