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May 6, 2019

The Leatherman’s Protocol Handbook, by John D. Weal

There are three sections that I found very interesting, which to me still serve as a good starting point, and very aligned to what you can find in BDSM blogs and community websites: Types of ‘Old Guard Protocols’ (with the social, low and high protocols), the positions, the hand and eye signals, and the dungeon protocols, which don’t differ from the usual party etiquette.
February 27, 2019

Serving my Master at Antwerp’s Leather Pride

Still flying from last weekend’s trip in Antwerp. The Leather & Fetish Pride Belgium has just finished, it’s been the first event I have attended as a collared slave, enjoying the atmosphere while making my best in serving my Master, a weekend of 24x7 that allowed me to enjoy both the Darklands and the fabulous The Boots. I’ve been happily diving in the subspace the whole weekend!
October 2, 2018

Using ‘Sir’ or not using ‘Sir’…

Until July’s trip to London, and for over a year, when chatting or sending text messages to Doms that I was grateful for the fun in a past session, for their kindness or just for being good friends, I was ending the sentences with the 'Sir' tail. Not pretending to auto-assign me as their boy, but I just started adding this in chat as an appreciation. It was the way I just started using to set clearly the kinky context when talking, moving from my ‘daily me’ into the ‘kinky me’.
August 22, 2018

Kinky London: the bondage and spank workshop

This workshop had the purpose of showing how knowing well a few simple knots leads into a great rope scene. Intricate shibari is an art and visually very exciting, however in sex play where you need to keep the engine running and the sexual arousal can disappear if not maintained well, it’s more effective for the scene to keep it simple and quick rather than trying to make something complex that takes long time to be made.
July 20, 2018

Kinky London: party preparations

The plan for the night was the Rubber Gear party in club Fire, and I had all the rubber outfit ready. Or at least the plan A. The unusual (and very much appreciated) heat wave in London made me wonder if the venue for the coming night was going to be hot as hell and I would end melting inside the rubber singlet, so I had the perfect excuse to visit Fetish Freak shop to pick rubber jocks to have as plan B, if required.
July 17, 2018

Kinky London: KlubSpankz

I was very hungry of a good flogging session, as last one had been in March when I had great spanking time with my Master, and my back and ass hadn't felt anymore the cuddle of a single flogger stripe. So, I brought in my playing bag a pair of floggers, a gag and restraints in case that I would find a trustful guy, otherwise I could be myself the one spanking a willing sub. I found myself going down a basement very close to King's Cross. It reminded me a bit of the old cruise bar La Base in Barcelona, the first one: small, smell of sex and sweat on the walls and in the dark corners... and a nice St Andrew's cross that caused me a hard on as I was seeing myself there.